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Dr. Robert B. “Bob” Belser, 82

January 31, 2021

Dr. Robert B. “Bob” Belser, 82, of Lancaster, passed away peacefully at his home in Manheim Township on Sunday, January 31, 2021 from complications of amyloidosis. Born July 26, 1938 in Lancaster, PA he was the son of the late Paul and Elva Mae (Freymeyer) Belser. They emphasized the importance of hard work and the value of education. Bob heeded their instructions, attending Franklin & Marshall College for three years for his pre-dental requirements. There he excelled in music, playing trumpet and singing in numerous organizations, and showing his athleticism on the tennis team. He headed to Temple Dental School where he not only honed his skills that would help many a patient over the years, but also fell in love with a wonderful dental hygiene student, Emiline Goerg, who would soon become Mrs. Belser.

They headed west to Winnemuca, Nevada as he served as the base dentist for the US Air Force. In Nevada, Bob Jr. was born and before long the family returned to Lancaster where daughter Cathy’s birth followed, and the family was complete. Dr. Bob would team with his older brother Paul in the dental business, working side by side for 35 years!

For Bob, family always came first. He loved family gatherings and always had a nugget of wisdom to share. Sports and competition of all sorts were central to the family. If he wasn’t playing tennis with friends, he was refining pitching techniques in the back yard, running basketball drills in the driveway or coaching various teams. Croquet and bocce came out during family picnics, and if it was raining you were headed to basement for ping pong or pool. Winning was always important to him deep inside but he never showed it!! Sportsmanship and fun were the names of the game and he preached that to all. As his joints got older, he was a devout spectator to the grandkids (Abigail, Phoebe and Bobby Belser, and Emily and Lizzie McBride) and at times more vocal than wife Emy preferred. Golf took center stage later in life as he served on the board at Lancaster Country Club and was a regular in the men’s golf events. This summer he shot his age, won the Super Senior club championship and his flight in the club championships. Just don’t ask about his mobility in the bunkers!!

Music was also central to the Belsers. Bob played the trumpet for numerous groups. Years ago you could find him in the pit at the Fulton, helping out brother Paul in the Lancaster Symphony and a regular in the balcony at Trinity Lutheran church (where he was devout member for more than 50 years!). More recently, he was an original member in the Lancaster British Brass band and a nice dental addition to the medical brass ensemble, the Auscultation Brass. Bob sang in the Trinity Choir and the Wesley Singers for years. Besides musical passions, Bob spent many years serving on the Board of the Lancaster Day Care Center and the YMCA.

You may not have known him, but there is a pretty good possibility that he talked to you in the grocery store, the parking lot at a shopping center or walking around the block. He was not the inspiration for Progressive’s most recent line of advertisement but could have been; no Dad, the waiter doesn’t need to know your name!!

Surviving in addition to Emy, Bob, and Cathy, are daughter-in-law Julie Belser, son-in-law, Kevin McBride, the five grandchildren, a sister Janet Belser, of Pittsburgh, brother Dr. Paul, husband of Yvonne, of Lancaster, and sister in law and brother in law, Gladys and O. William Murray.

Unfortunately, due to COVID, the Memorial Service, held at Trinity Lutheran Church 31 S. Duke St. Lancaster, PA 17602 on Saturday, February 13th at 2:00 pm, will be private but it will be streamed on Bob’s obituary page at SnyderFuneralHome.com. The live stream will appear on this obituary page. Please refresh the page closer to the time of the service. The service will also be streamed by the church and can be viewed by clicking here. Interment will be in the church memorial garden at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Bob’s memory to Trinity Lutheran Church 31 S. Duke St. Lancaster, PA 17602, the YMCA at 265 Harrisburg Ave., Lancaster, PA 17603 and Music For Everyone at 42 N. Prince St., Lancaster, PA 17603.

Dr. Bob, Pappy, Pops was a wonderful husband, father, grandfather, dentist and friend that made a humongous difference in the world and will be missed by many.

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August 30, 2022

It’s been nearly fifty years since I went to Dr. Bob. And I knew army from YECA Welcome Wagon! My name then was Jane Rineer. What a great couple! What a great life! I am so sorry for the family’s loss! I will never forget how fun it was to go to the dentist , and the fun we had socializing. I, too, have had a recent (2020) loss of a mate! 

March 10, 2021

As a service adviser, I first met Dr Belser when he brought his Chrysler in to be serviced. He was so easy to talk to it was like we had known each other for ever. It was sad when he decided to trade the Chrysler in for a Lexus – not because the dealership lost a customer but because I would not be having those wonderful conversations with him any more. A truly fine gentleman who will be missed.  G Jay Jones

February 25, 2021

My hearfelt condolences are extended to Bob’s wonderful familly, who supported him in his love of music.  My departed spouse, Mike, and I shared many decades of wonderful musical performances together with Bob and his son in the balcony of Trinity Lutheran Church during the Easter celebration.  Great memories of brass players blending their sounds together in the Glory of the Resurrection.  
Sherry Ober

February 25, 2021

Dear Emy,  My deepest sympathy on the loss of Bob.  I always admired and liked Bob, both personally and professionally.  I know he is greatly missed.  A class act !     Fred and Victoria Teschner

February 23, 2021

Dear Belser Family,
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Dr. Belser.  Please accept our deepest condolences. We are all praying for strength and comfort, for your family, during this difficult time.
The Duncheskie Family

February 18, 2021

Dear Emy, Cathy, and Bob, 
I am so sorry for your loss.  Blessings to all of you.  Such a good man,  who now is in a much better place with God.  Please know my prayers are and have been with you. 
Bev Moran

February 13, 2021

To the entire Belser Family,
Our heartfelt sympathies to all of you. Bob was an American Classic and the epitome of a family man and friend to all.  (He really may have been the inspiration for the Geiko commercial)  There are few people who have as much class, grace, and humility as Bob had.  He made everyone’s lives more enjoyable and richer when her was around.  He always took a genuine interest in other people’s lives.   I really loved playing golf with him because he was so competitve, fun to be around, and I actually won with him as my partner a couple of times!  It is a tribute to him in how much people respected him and also how loved he was by his family.  He will be missed greatly, and I count myself fortunate to have known Bob Belser..  
John and Kathy Weierbach

February 13, 2021

Emmie,
Lloyd saw Bob Jr. at the office the other day and hopefully he passed on our condolenses. We were so sorry to hear about your dear Bob. And he was a dear Bob. You were blessed to share this life experience with him. The service today, was just a glorius tribute. We are keeping you in our prayers. What a great family!!! 
brenda jacobson

February 13, 2021

Dear Emi,
We were with you at Bob’s service today.  It was so appropriate.  You have a wonderful family, and their participation was meaningful.  Thank you for the opportunity to attend.
Chet and Joy Douglass

February 13, 2021

Dear Emy,
Like many, we were shocked to learn of Bob’s passing. Before the pandemic, our paths regularly crossed at the Y. I didn’t realize we were the same age as he looked much younger than I did. While we’ve known him for many years and thrilled to his music with Peter and others, I was most impressed that he continued to play with the British Brass Band. The music they played was very difficult but Bob seemed to be confident in his ability to play with them. It’s been our pleasure to know the two of you!
Blessings to you and your family,
Dorothy and Bob Cooper

February 12, 2021

I was sorry to hear of Dr. Belser’s passing. I am Dr. Wayne Ranck’s daughter, Deborah, and I know he spoke fondly of him through the years, and they attended the same church. My father passed last month, but I wanted to send my condolences and prayers to your family. 
Warmly, 
Deb and Steve Gavalchik 

February 12, 2021

Dear Emy and family,
We are so sad to hear of Bob’s passing. Our condolences to you and your family. Bob was always a kind and friendly face at Trinity.  May sweet memories fill your hearts.
Dave and Dzintra Gorman
 

February 12, 2021

Dear Bob, Julie and family,
Words are inadequate to fully express our deepest sympathy to you on the passing of your father.  The beautifully written obit clearly indicates that he leaves behind a vibrant legacy, a life well-lived.  We pray that you will feel God’s loving presence, giving you peace and strength in the midst of this very difficult time.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dale and Twila Rohrer

February 10, 2021

Dear Belser Family,
    I was so sorry to see the passing of your husband, father and grandfather. Our families have been friends for years and I have fond memories of him cheering on all the kids at swim meets and tennis matches.  He was a great friend and neighbor to may parents for many years too.  No more sufferring, may he rest in peace.  My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jennifer Droz Switch

February 10, 2021

Emy, I was most surprised to see that Bob had passed into eternity with the Lord this week.  I pray that you and your family will be given comfort and peace at this difficult time.  I knew about Bob’s many activities, but was only familiar with his passion for golf and his great sense of humor.  There may or may not be a golf course or a tennis court or an orchestra in heaven, but I’m confident it will be indescribably better.  I’ll look forward to seeing him again one day.  
Fred Rudy

February 10, 2021

 
Dear Belser family-Beverley and I are so sorry to learn of Bob’s passing.Weboth enjoyed very much the many musical activities in which he played. I have fond memories of our times together-playing bridge at Lcc, many rounds of golf as partners and competitors, a memorable golf trip to Williamsburg, and singing with the Wesleys. He was a true gentleman and will be missed.
Rob Felter

February 10, 2021

Dear Emy and family, we were so shocked to hear of Bob’s death. What a beautifully written obituary, he touched so many peoples lives. I always admired the closeness of your family. what great memories he left to comfort you.  Barb and Rick Gunning

February 09, 2021

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss,  May Bob be at peace, and may your memories keep him forever in your hearts. Your family members are all in my cares and my prayers.
Marjorie Bushong

February 09, 2021

Dear Emi and family,
Very thankful to have known and interacted with Belser families since the 1960’s. The contributions you have made via good dentistry, otolayngology, art, music, community education, etcetera are very positive.
May your good memories of Bob enrich your faith and hope.
Connie Brown

February 09, 2021

I am very sorry for your loss. Bob was such a wodnerful man. I never saw him- not once- where he didn’t have a smile on his face and a nice word to say. He will be sadly missed.
David Marks

February 09, 2021

Dear Emy and family, although Bob lived a relatively long life, I was shocked to hear of his sudden death because he was so active. I was always glad to be paired with him for golf, not only because he played well, but because he was always a pleasure to play with. I will miss him. I’m sure God is taking care of him now.
 
Steve Senkowski

February 08, 2021

Dear Bob Jr.,
I am so sorry to hear of your dads passing. I too recently lost my father and it was so devastating. What gave me some peace is all the outpouring of love and support by all the people’s lives my dad touched.  For the short time that I knew your dad several things struck me. He always asked about others. He always wanted to know how my daughter was doing in tennis. He was always positive and happy. He cared about his family and talked about you often.  I will pray for your family during this tough time. Remember all the good times with your dad, they will last forever. 
Chad Kettler

February 08, 2021

Dear Doctor Bob & Kathy – 
While Julie and I no longer live in Lancaster, we saw the obituary for your father in today’s paper.  While I did not know your dad personally, I’m sure his passing is a sad time for the family.  We will keep your families in our thoughts and prayers.  Your dad left a legacy of positivity in the Lancaster community and I’m sure you are proud of the life your dad lived.  Sincerely, Bill & Julie Marshall

February 08, 2021

Thoughts and prayers to you all….The Kurtz Family

February 08, 2021

Dear Emy and family,
With sympathy on the loss of a wonderful person. May the Grace of God bring comfort to you during this difficult time. Know that Bob’s cheerful spirit will continue to live with you and with all who knew him.
Bob and I shared many enjoyable and memorable moments as members of John Peifer’s F&M Blue Band. One of those humorous moments occured during an April band trip to Atlantic City. On a dare, Bob and I decided to take a plunge in the ocean. We had swimming trunks because the hotel in which we stayed had a pool. Walking on the Boardwalk on our way to the beach we received more than a few curious glances and comments about our bare legs and feet exposed beneath our buttoned-up F&M pea coats. One such comments was -“stupid college kids.” We did indeed take that dipin the Atlantic ocean thus living the dare — the operative word here is “dip” because we didn’t stay very lon in the frigid April Atlantic Ocean. There are many more memories of Bob and our F&M band experiences that will live with me forever.
Heaven has now received a new trumpeter to herald God’s goodness.
Lowell Haws

February 08, 2021

Dear Emy, Bob, Julie and family,Please accept my condolences on the passing of your beloved patriarch.  I always enjoyed his easy-going manner and his interest in what was going on in the lives of those he spoke with.  And then there was his competitive spirit and wonderful sense of humor.  I know you will miss him immensely, but honor him by continuing his ways and traditions through the next generations!  Blessings to all of you, Rebecca Hennessy

February 08, 2021

Dear Emmie, Bob Jr.and Cathy, and spouses and grandchildren,
I’m sorry to hear of Bob, Sr. passing.  It’s been quite sometime since my late husband and I saw Dr. Bob as a dentist. My late husband Vernon was a 1st cousin to Bob Sr.
I think one can hear him playing his trumpet with the angels.  I always enjoyed hearing his Lancaster Brass.
 My prayers are with you all.
Anna M. Belser

February 08, 2021

Emi anf family – Bob will live on with his family and friends.  What a dear friendly and cheerful man he was.  Enjoyed singing in Trinity Choir with him.
Marian Walters

February 08, 2021

As a patient for many years and a friend of Dr Bob Belser, we want to express our deepest sympathy to the Belser family….Peace…Jack and Dee Vulgaris

February 08, 2021

Dear Bob, Julie, and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. What a wonderful family man he was!  You are so fortunate to call him Dad.  Peace to you all during this trying time. 
Lisa
 

February 08, 2021

We were long time patients of his dental  practice and also saw him on the tennis courts. Any interaction we had with him was always very positive. He will be missed by all who knew him. We are so very sorry for your loss. Lancaster has lost a wonderful man.
Jane & Gerald Baldwin

February 08, 2021

Emy and family. I was so saddened to read about the passing of Bob. The memorial was beautiful and so well said. My warmest and deepest sympathies. 
Blessings, Marilyn Sander 

February 08, 2021

We are so sorry for your loss. What a kind and loving man who always cared about other people. What a great example he was to all of us.  We are honored to have known him. 
Peter and Julie Dodd

February 07, 2021

Condolences
 
 
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rob and Wanda Reed
 
 

February 07, 2021

I am so very sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful man with an amazing family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. 
Sam And Billy Baldwin

February 07, 2021

I am so very sorry for your loss. I only met Bob once but I have heard so many wonderful things about him. It is so difficult to loss a loved one. I will be praying for Bob and his wonderful family- 
Patty Keen

February 07, 2021

So very sorry for your loss. Dr. Belser was my childhood dentist, and Cathy and I were Manheim Township classmates and friends. I still remember spending a fun few days at the Jersey shore with Cathy, Emy and Bob. My heartfelt condolences to the entire family. 
Melissa Teller

February 07, 2021

Thoughts and prayers for you all!  Jen, Chase and I will have you in our thoughts.
David Funk

February 07, 2021

To Emy and Family – Jim and I would like to offer our deepest sympathy for the loss of a wonderful man.  The obituary was so well written and very fitting.  We have a particularly personal memory of Bob, as he played the trumpet at our wedding in 1968.  Henry Purcell would have been so proud of Bob’s rendition of his “Trumpet Tune” !!  He will be missed by so many.  Cathy and Jim Appel

February 07, 2021

Debbie and I were shocked and saddened to learn of Bob’s passing.  He was the perfect gentleman and we will miss him very much.  Carson and Debbie Brooks

February 07, 2021

Our prayers and condolences.  We had the pleasure of knowing Bob for only a short time, but enjoyed his outgoing personality.  May God hold Bob in His hands and give him peace.
John and Pat Carpenter

February 07, 2021

To Emy and family,
So sad and sorry for our loss on this earth of such a beautiful man with a warm, gracious handshake and smile followed by kind words of encouragement. It was a privilege to know and worship Our Savior, Jesus Christ with Bob and Emy together at Trinity Lutheran Church.
 
Always welcoming to all, Bob was truly a man blessed by God. I surely enjoyed the privilege of “grilling and chilling” with Bob whenever we were cooking burgers and hot dogs at the TLC summer picnics at Neffsville Park. Anytime with Bob is a special time and now those special events will remain in my heart forever. Family and friends, please be comforted that Bob has obtained his salvation through Our Lord Jesus Christ and there is a special place for Bob with Jesus, who welcomes those that truly love him and that we might live with him too, together and forever.
Bill Glessner
 

February 07, 2021

We will miss Bob. In so many ways he was an inspiration to my profession. Always a kind and giving person.
John and Sharon Sheaffer

February 07, 2021

Our sincere condolences to Dr. Robert Belser, Jr., and his whole family for the loss of their dear father and
grandfather.
                          Patient of Dr. Belser’s ENT practice. 

February 07, 2021

We offer our sincere condolences to the Belser family over the loss of Bob.
Bob was such a wonderful man. He always greeted you with a big smile, and a kind word.
I will miss competing with him on the course. Although  an intense competitor , he was  always so gracious.  It made my losses to him a little easier to take.
Blessings and peace to you all,
Tom & Toni Schreder 
 

February 07, 2021

So very sorry to hear of Bob’s death! He was such a great guy and for me for many years a wonderful dentist. Our thoughts and prayers are with you dealing with this tragedy.
Joan and John Bergey 

February 07, 2021

i ALWAYS ADMIRED BOB FOR HIS SPORTMANSHIP AND FELLOWSHIP.  HW WAS A PLEASURE TO BE AROUND.  hOWEVER I WILL NEVER FORGIVE HIM FOR SINKING A 50 FOOT PUT ON THE EIGHTEENTH HOLE ATLCC AND BEATING ME ON THE 19 HOLE LAYOFF CHAMPIONSHIP. EM,  MAY YOUR GRIEF TURN SOON TO HAPPY MEMORIES
marvin daley

February 07, 2021

I’m extremely blessed to have known Bob. He had such a positive spirit and energy to him. My sincerest condolences to the entire Belser Family. 
Doug Albert

February 07, 2021

Condolences from the Kager family to a great family and a great man.

February 07, 2021

Dear Emy and family:
So, so sorry to hear of your loss.
Bob was very understated, it was never about him, which was an admired asset.  Always a strong and fair competitor whether it be tennis, golf etc. and we are sure as a professional dentist, trumpetor, or just as a friend.
Had many fond memories reading the well written obit.  He was so soft spoken and caring.
With deepest sympathy.
Ron and Dee Smith

February 07, 2021

Our heartfelt condolences go out to Emy, Bob Jr, Cathy, and their greater families. Bob was a man of genuine integrity on every level, and we are so grateful for his influence in our lives. Respectfully, Ken & Linda Husler

February 07, 2021

Dear Emy – even though a strong Episcopalian Bob was a real contributing member of the Highland P:resbeterian Wednesday morning book group. Like all your family our group will miss him greatly. As will I!
Gene Hannum

February 07, 2021

Sincerest condolances to Emy and family.  Bob was truly a good and kind man.  I enjoyed singing next to him in the bass/baritone section of the Trinity choir for a number of years.  He was just a nice guy to be around.  
Daniel G. Sigman

February 07, 2021

To: Emy, Bob, Cathy, Abby, Phoebe, Bobby, Emily, Lizzie, Julie and Kevin,
   We were shocked and so saddened to hear about the death of Bob, Sr. He led a full life and was clearly a man of many talents, but his most important talent was being the patriarch of your wonderful family. We know how much he will be missed by all of you, and we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. His talents and personality definitely live on in all of you.  Love, Gordie and Linda

February 07, 2021

Emy and Family,
Our deepest sympathy on the loss of Bob. Always cheerful and  pleasant, with a smile to share, we will miss seeing him at Trinity and the positive outlook he always shared.
 
Christopher and Suzanne Geib

February 07, 2021

Such a beautiful memorial write-up! Realy captured the vitality, fatherly/grandfatherly wisdom, work ethic, social conscience and of course humor that Dad/Pappy/Pops and personally “Uncle Bob” meant for so many of us. A life well lived, supported by his amazing wife Emy that made a difference in all surrounded by him. God bless you Uncle Bob!
Nancy L Belser

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