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Becky Bender, 59

August 06, 2021

Becky A. Bender, 59, of Lancaster, went into the arms of her Lord and Savior on August 6, 2021. Born in York, she was the daughter of the late Earl K. and Birdie M. (Williams) Mosebrook. She reunited with her mother in Heaven, on the 26th anniversary of her passing. She was the loving wife of Arthur D. Bender until his passing in 2018.

Becky worked for 23 years as a quality control manager for RMI, Qualipak, Banta and finally R.R. Donnelly until her retirement in 2009. At that point she dedicated herself to taking care of Arthur when his health began declining. Recently she worked at Dollar Tree, which brought her great joy. She loved her family and treasured making memories with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She also enjoyed diamond painting.

Her love will live on in her daughters: Danielle Connatser, (Shawn) of Lebanon and Dana Wilson of Lancaster, five stepsons, grandchildren: Aleah M. Metzger, Jaidyn M. Wilson, Arya J. and Garrison, ten step grandchildren, a great-grandson, Landyn Sheaffer, siblings: Betty Oatman, George Mosebrook, Brian Mosebrook and Keith Mosebrook, and a host of extended family. She was preceded in passing by her husband Arthur Bender, her first husband, Dennis Wilson and a brother, Ken Mosebrook.

A Celebration of Becky’s life will be held on Monday, August 9, 2021 at the Charles F. Snyder Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA at 3 PM. Friends and family are invited to attend a visitation from 2 PM until the time of the service. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to, Vickie’s Angel Foundation, 511 Bridge St. P.O. Box 174, New Cumberland, PA 17070.

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August 14, 2021

I am so sorry for your loss , Sending you a big hug Dana , I can’t believe I missed her service .❤️
 
Kelly wilson

August 10, 2021

Very sorry to see that Becky passed away
I didn’t know her well but sad for her family
Love, Donna Speece–Lancaster

August 09, 2021

Sending our love, prayers and condolences to everyone Becky’s life touched both in her family and friends. Becky was so kind, caring and compassionate, her life touched so many. I wish there were words to ease your grieving… gone too soon. Love, the Zink’s, Valerie Cameron and Chase

August 08, 2021

You will forever be missed Becky. We had many great talks, many great laughs, and a few tears. I’m happy to know you’re with Art back in each others arms in Gods paradise. Love you always ♥️
Jodi

August 07, 2021

Heaven must have needed another Angel when He took you. We will miss you. You were loved by so many. Fly your wings and soar.

August 07, 2021

I worked with Becky and Dennis at Qualipak.  I enjoyed them as a couple and as individuals.  Becky was a positive person and a hard worker.  She treated others like family.  She will be missed by many.  She has finally moved to Paradise.

August 07, 2021

Joey Pamela Peiffer  so sad  Joey  worked with Art Pam his wife and Joe became close friends with them so sad that they are both gone but so glad they are both with Jesus now together 

August 06, 2021

You have our condolences!  We didn’t know Becky long, but could see her love for her family and for life. May you feel the love of Jesus and the hope He gives at this time🌺
–Jay & Cindy Brackbill

August 06, 2021

I’ll always have your back Danielle , Aleah and Arya.  Love yous Mammal Miss

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Monday, August 09, 2021
2:00 PM - 3:00 PM
Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory
3110 Lititz Pike
Lititz, PA 17543
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