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Dean Paul Behnke, 81

September 14, 2023

Dean Paul Behnke, 81, of East Petersburg, passed away peacefully and with family on Thursday, September 14, 2023. Born in Kewanee, IL, he was the son of the late Raymond and Esther (Scovill) Behnke. He was married for 37 years to his beloved wife Tommie (Erickson) Behnke.

Dean worked for over 30 years at United States Postal Service from which he retired. He attended Parsons College and was in the Phi Sig fraternity. He was also a bridge champion at ISU. Dean was a proud veteran of the US Army and served during Vietnam playing the drums in the Army Band. He was a wonderful man and loved to tell stories and jokes. He also had a strong relationship with God. Dean enjoyed playing golf, darts, listening to Irish music, playing cards, and the Ford Model A. He will be sorely missed by the family and friends that got to know him.

In addition to his wife Tommie, Dean is survived by daughters Tawni Eccles and Michele Pletcher, sons Erick Henderson and John Paul Pletcher, sister Ruth Anne Scott (Bill), aunt JoAnn Behnke, 8 grandchildren, 4 great-grandchildren, 2 nieces, 1 nephew, 1 great-niece, 3 great-nephews, 1 great-great niece, and numerous cousins and extended family.

Services will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations in his name can be made to DaVita Dialysis, 2100 Harrisburg Pike, 3rd Flr, Lancaster, PA 17601-2644, or American Cancer Society, 1818 Market St, Philadelphia, PA 19103.

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October 14, 2023

Our sympathy to the family in the loss of Dean. Our prayers are with you all.         Dennie & Dianne Packee

October 13, 2023

So sorry . I just learned of Dean’s passing. He was such a blessing to Tomie and the whole family. He has joyfully met his Savior and those who went before him. My prayers and love to you all.
Shelley McCombe

October 12, 2023

Tommie,
 I just saw Dean’s homecoming announcement on Facebook. I am praying for you and your family at this time. I know Dean is rejoicing and worshiping with George and Vivian. I love you! Kathy Hipkins

October 12, 2023

Sorry for the loss, sending hugs and prayers to the family. 
Kelly Chamountry

September 19, 2023

We are so sorry for the loss of Dean. Although we knew him for a few short years he filled our time with him with years of humor and warmth. He will be missed . May God  hold him in his loving arms
Marie and Stan Cherubin

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