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Virginia Joann “Jo” Conlin, 91

November 24, 2024

Death came gently for our mom. She took her last breath on November 24, 2024 surrounded by her daughters, grandchildren, niece and the Moravian Manor staff who had become part of her family.

Born in Lancaster in 1933, she was a child of the Great Depression and World War II. The daughter of Virginia E. Snyder and Grover Cleveland Snyder, Jr., she recalled a magical childhood spent playing with her four siblings in Lancaster city. She attended J.P. McCaskey High School and shortly after graduation she married our dad, Richard “Dick” R. Conlin who passed in 2016.

She began her married life at the University of Illinois where my dad attended graduate school. Returning to Lancaster they began creating a family. Our mom was a creative and over the years delved into many interests including sewing, embroidery, knitting, crocheting, videography, painting, tennis and golf. She was an amazing cook and gardener. In their later years, mom and dad spent many winters in Fort Myers, Florida at the Landings playing golf and living the “retired” life which they both embraced. She traveled to England, most memorably with me, where we immersed ourselves in the London stage, brooding Edinburgh, Scottish lochs, pubs, Wales, the Lake District, Glastonbury, cathedrals, stone circles, and legends of King Arthur and Robin Hood.

She loved handsome men and strong women. She loved rock and roll, especially the Eagles and Toto. She loved fresh strawberries, pastries, sand tarts and corn on the cob. She helped us create crafts, put on plays for the neighborhood and made our Holidays so memorable.

We are her surviving daughters, Kim E. Ludewig, Rebecca C. Kopp and Kathleen “Katy” M. Conlin (married to Samuel Fonzi). “Meemaw” is also survived by her beloved grandchildren, Jessica C. Morales and Max E. Ludewig and her dear niece, Virginia S. Rohrer and her little brother, John Robert Snyder. She is predeceased by her parents and siblings Zoe M. Rohrer, Grover “Happy” C. Snyder III and Paula E. Wolf.

Our mother’s legacy is not in careers or awards or heroic deeds but in her passions which survive in us…a passion for learning, for words, for reading, for art, for theater, for music, for games, for the beach, for gardening, for cooking, for history, for debate, for women’s rights, for pets, for all things British and most importantly…for laughter.

We love you Mom. We love you Meemaw. We love you Aunt Joann. Forever and always!

According to her wishes there will be no service.

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December 15, 2024

I always felt like part of your family around your mom… the pipe smell lingers as the laughter dances down the stairs. Strong women did she  raise!  RIP Jo 
Mary Lumsden

December 12, 2024

Your Mom was an amazing woman and every time I was with her was memorable. I laugh thinking about her correcting grammar and punctuation on Facebook posts! Love to you.
Deborah Sellers

December 12, 2024

What a beautiful tribute to your amazing Mom
God be with you and your family as you remember her, and know you will see her again. 
Blanche Goodhart

December 11, 2024

Please accept my deepest sympathies.   I enjoyed working with Jo at the physical therapy office.  She brought fun and laughter to our office.
Mary Anne Vogt

December 09, 2024

I’m so sorry not to attend a memorial for Jo.  Somethings I would say:  From one strong woman to another, I intend to borrow that exquisite line from an excellent obituary. she was always so much fun and so kind and sympathetic during the many years we double dated ! And all that time I knew Paula Wolfe without knowing they were connected.  You will miss her; the world is diminished by the loss of her optomistic self, curious about so many interesting things.  

December 08, 2024

Beautifully written! I cried and smiled at the sametime.  Life, Live, Learn, Laughter, Children, Stories, and Love!

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