Obituaries

Bernice G. Shaeffer, 85

March 24 1935 - April 14, 2020

Bernice (Groff) Shaeffer, 85, passed away on Tuesday, April 14, 2020 at Hamilton Arms Center in Lancaster. Prior to moving to Hamilton Arms she resided with her daughter, Gynith Shaeffer in New Providence. She was the daughter of the late Francis Groff and Susan (Steffy) Groff, and was born in Vintage, PA.

Bernice raised her family in Lampeter and retired from Exide Corporation in Lampeter after many years of service. Bernice loved to watch UFC and Cops on TV. She also found great pleasure spending time with her “grandcats”.

She is survived by her children, J. Donald Shaeffer, Jr., of Millersville, PA, Gynith Shaeffer of New Providence, PA and David Shaeffer of San Diego, CA. She is also survived by one granddaughter, Abigail Shaeffer. The youngest of 7 children, she was predeceased by all of her siblings, Beatrice (Groff) Adams, Helen (Groff) Stanley, Arlene (Groff) Rice, Susan (Groff) McClure, John Groff and George Groff.

A graveside service will be planned at a later date.

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Condolences to the Family

April 27, 2020

sending you all prayers and love 
Tammy Jenter

April 26, 2020

So sorry, Gynith. No one can come close to taking the place of your mother. She was so pretty! I never met her but she has a very sweet face. Time will help you deal better with the loss but you will always miss her. But talk to her. I feel like my mom is always with me. Much love to you and your family. Jan

April 24, 2020

To JD and the Shaeffer family:
Please accept my heartfelt condolences in the unfortunate loss of your loved one. She is now at rest and peace. 🕊💞
Dottie Boots

April 23, 2020

David and Gynth sorry about your Mom. She will be missed.Wish I could give you both a big hug,but someday soon you will get a extra big one from me. Your Mom had a special place in my heart. Love you both.🙏🙏🙏
Elaine Wimer

April 23, 2020

and Don too. 

April 23, 2020

David,
Our love and sympathy to you.   A Mother is a force in your life that has no equal,  and we send a prayer to you and Gynith at this loss.   She is greeted by immense and unfathomable love.   Your wonderful qualities come from this same love and we hope peace comes to you from this gift. 
Love,
Judy Phil Adrienne and Philip in Sacramento 

April 22, 2020

David & Gynith – thinking of you and sending you and your loved ones comfort and peace.
Love, Lydia

April 21, 2020

Donnie,Gynith and David   She was a great women in her own way..I know she loved you all and she will be missed  by all..Sending prayers for strength and peace..Hugs to all..
Joyce

April 21, 2020

Prayers to all of you. So sorry for your family. Aunt Bernie was a special lady. 
Denise

April 21, 2020

To the Shaeffer Family,
Our condolences for the loss of your Mother ❤ We swnd you all our love & hugs during this sad time in your lives. May you eventually find your peace, by keeping her alive in your smiles.
Karen & Vicky

April 21, 2020

David, Gynith and Don,
I’m so very sorry for your loss 💔
Dee Thomas

April 21, 2020

Aunt Bernie was an icon to our family. 
Paul lowrey

April 21, 2020

Prayers and love for our family … 
Scott Sultzbach

April 20, 2020

So sorry for your loss David! ❤️
Michelle Mazzola

April 20, 2020

With deepest sympathy and warm hugs.
Love , Nina
 

April 20, 2020

To the shaffer family, may you find peace in your heart god willing little less pain as the days go by. She is now free of any pain now that she left her body but her soul and spirit is dancing with joy having no more pain. God Bless You All 
Cecilia Vazquez

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