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James T. Sheckler,“Shecky”, 83

October 1, 1937 - March 12, 2021

James T. Sheckler, 83, of Lititz and formerly of Manheim Township, passed away on Friday, March 12, 2021 at Moravian Manor. Born in Tyrone, PA, he was the son of the late George T. Jr. and Ethel (Hickes) Sheckler.

Jim was a graduate of Tyrone Area High School, class of 1956, and the Thaddeus Stevens Trade School in Lancaster. Jim retired in 1999 from Burnham Corporation where he devoted his professional career for 35 years, serving in many roles including Quality Control Manager.

Jim’s passion for drumming and music began at an early age, and he continued playing through high school and the local Tyrone Gardner Guards Drum and Bugle Corps. He became involved with various music ensemble groups while at Stevens. In the years since, he has played with the Royal Tones, Bob Troxell’s Big Big Jazz Band, and most recently the Moonlighters from Lititz. His gift to the many friends and family that loved him was sharing the hours of music he played for their dancing and listening enjoyment, where he never skipped a beat. Featured drum solos gave us all a chance to marvel at his passion and talent.

Jim embraced life’s little joys including many trips to the beach, watercolor painting, and cooking. His passion with trains was ignited by his father which he eagerly passed on to each of his children and grandchildren. His fascination with WWII movies, and airplanes incited his interest in computer flight simulators with many successful landings but a memorable laugh when he overshot the target or landed in the water.

Jim was known for his boisterous laughter and was always a kid at heart. As the best Donald Duck impersonator, he captured the love of his grandchildren. He was always found attending his grandchildren’s sporting or music events where his whooping and cheering never went unnoticed. For over 50 years, Jim worshipped at Grandview Church.

Left to cherish his memories are his wife of sixty-one years, Judith “Judy” (Meredith) Sheckler; his son, Lawrence “Larry” A. Sheckler, husband of Nancy (Trees); his daughter, Kimberly “Kim”, wife of Paul Michael Bowers; five grandchildren, Ryan Sheckler, husband of Theresa, Jacey, wife of Andrew Mitchell, Paul T. Bowers, husband of Sarah, Alexander M. Bowers, Adam M. Bowers; four great-grandchildren, Liam and Rory Sheckler, and Wesley and Brynlee Bowers; and his sister Sally Cupp.

In memory of Shecky, his family would like you to:
“spend time with your children, take a walk on the beach with your loved ones and embrace some music to fill your soul.”

The family is incredibly grateful for the compassionate care he received at Moravian Manor over the last two years. Please omit flowers, and kindly consider a contribution in Shecky’s memory to the Benevolent Care Fund at Moravian Manor Communities at https://www.moravianmanorcommunities.org/donate

Shecky’s family will greet friends on Saturday, April 10, 2021 from 9 to 10:30 AM at the Charles F. Snyder Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543. Private interment will be in the Grandview Church Memorial Garden.

The Private celebration of Shecky’s life can be viewed through Livestream on Saturday, April 10, 2021 at 11:00 AM and in the future at the link that will appear below on Saturday at 11:00 AM.

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April 10, 2021

In all of our lives there are always people we know and love who seem to stand out in our minds- upbeat and happy.  Sheck is one of these and memories of our life wIth him will always be with us.  Farewell good friend!  Thanks for enriching our life! 
Tom and Jan Stoner

March 25, 2021

Dear Judy and family,
My deepest sympathies during this difficult time. Shecky was an amazing man and his infectious laughter will always be remembered. I’ll always remember the times shared with Moonlighters. Thinking of you. 
Kristin Reifsnyder

March 23, 2021

Dear Shecklers,
i was so saddened when I heard of Sheckeys passing.  He was such a sweet, funny, caring man.  The Deiters have many great memories of him.  Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you during this sad time.  God bless, Marilyn Deiter

March 22, 2021

Shecky, was such a hoot!  Boisterous laugh – check!  Smile that could light up a room – check!  Someone who could make friends with anyone – check!  Would jump on a drum set if it was empty – check!  Enjoyed many a vacation, dinner, and football game with Shecky and the family, and I have many stories that I will fondly remember.  RIP Shecky!  Tommy Stoner

March 22, 2021

Dear Judy and family
Thank you so much for letting me know of Shecky’s passing.  He had such a joy for life that it was infectious.  He loved to laugh and made others laugh along with him.  I know that he will be greatly missed by all who knew him.  The world will be a little sadder with him gone.
With love and prayers
Maryann and Ken Enge

March 22, 2021

Larry, so sad to hear of your Father’s passing. Our sympathies and prayers are with you and your family. 
Mike Slaugh

March 21, 2021

Dear Mrs. Sheckler, Larry, Kim and entire Sheckler family – I was saddened to read of Mr. Sheckler’s passing. I have fond memories of hanging at the Sheckler home on New Holland Ave all those many years ago and having Mr. Sheck regale us with his drumming prowess and sense of humor! Sending all of you my heartfelt condolences.
Stephen Sherman

March 21, 2021

So sorry to hear of Jim’s passing. He was the life of every party or gathering and knew how to make all smile.  He will be missed.
Wendy Harnish

March 20, 2021

Sheckler Family, We are very sorry to hear of Shecky’s passing.  We loved the obituary-it certainly portrayed him exactly as we will always remember him.  You have our heartfelt sympathy.
Pat and Barry Bruno

March 20, 2021

Dear Judy and Family-So sorry to hear about Jim’s passing. I remember your wedding and walking across the street from church and you changing to leave on your honeymoon. So sorry that we haven’t kept in touch, but want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Hopefully when this virus is over and I get up to Pa. and visit my daughter in Gap, we can get together. Sending Love- Mary (Faust) Michaels-Wilcox

March 20, 2021

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We had such fun. ky was one of a kind. Sincerely, Jan and Tom Stoner

Visitation
Saturday, April 10, 2021
9:00 AM - 10:30 AM
Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory
3110 Lititz Pike
Lititz, PA 17543
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