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Jean DiPaolo Dockey, 87

December 21, 2022

Jean DiPaolo Dockey, 87, of Lancaster, PA passed away on the Winter Solstice, Wednesday, December 21, 2022. Born in Berwick, PA she was the daughter of the late Dayl L.T. and Ruth (Graham) Dockey. Jean was a generous and self-sacrificing mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, and friend. She was very proud of and loved dearly her six children, eleven grandchildren, nine great-grandchildren, and six nephews and nieces. She dedicated her life to her children and all their endeavors, her family, and community.

Jean is survived by her children and grandchildren: Denise and her children Lucian and Nicolas; Michael, and his wife Mary Lynn and their children Derek, Alexander, and Diana; Anthony and his wife Angela; Dino and his children Drew and Ashley; Beth and her husband Edward and children Stephanie and Kyle; Frank and his children Catherine and Sophia; and beloved sister Nikki Hess. She is predeceased by her twin sister Joan McClintock, sister L.N. Dockey, and brothers-in-law Ned and William.

Jean was strong and hardworking. She supported her family business in Salisbury, NC in the 1950’s. She then moved to Lancaster, PA in the 1960’s where she worked in the library at Franklin and Marshall College. She then worked as a phlebotomist at Lancaster General Hospital and managed the Lancaster Blood Bank in the 1970’s. In the early 1980’s, she moved to San Diego working as a phlebotomist at Scripps Memorial Hospital. Returning to Lancaster, she worked as a real estate professional for Berger Realty and then worked for the PA Dept. of State where she was named Employee of the Year. While working for Rep. Jere Strittmatter, PA House of Representatives, she pursued her lifelong dream of becoming a nurse attending night school. After earning her degree in 1994, she continued working full-time in nursing including private duty until she retired at age 75.

Jean thanks her children for giving her a life of sobriety in which she celebrated 33 years. She was an active member of Alcoholics Anonymous where she touched countless lives. She served as a board member of the National Council on Alcoholism and the Gatehouse. She served as Vice President on the board of H.E.A.R. Inc. Jean also volunteered for the American Cancer Society, American Heart Association, West End Ambulance, Gatehouse, and played an active role contributing to and supporting the Lancaster Catholic High School sports community.

Jean was an avid reader and loved crossword puzzles. Adventurous at heart, she was an avid slalom water skier while attending University of Miami. She loved traveling throughout the U.S., as well as Ireland, Italy, Greece, Cuba, Brazil, and the Caribbean.

In honor of Jean’s life, please join us for cake and coffee at her celebration of life memorial service held at Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543 on June 1, 2023 beginning at 5 pm. We welcome family and friends to share reflections and memories beginning at 6 pm. Her Interment will be held at noon on Friday, June 2 with her family and dear friends at St. Mary’s Cemetery, Berwick, PA. In lieu of flowers in honor of Jean’s life, contributions may be made to American Heart Association at www.heart.org/donate.

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March 21, 2023

Jean I cannot explain how important you and your friendship has impacted my life.  I will be forever grateful for your kindness, support and most of all your love.  My only regret is that we were not closer all through the years. I know that you are watching me and I don’t want you to worry I will find my way eventually.  Thank you for being there when no one else was. Thank you for daring to look deeper and seeing me and not the mask.  Thank you for being my friend. 

March 21, 2023

Jean you have no idea of how much our friendship meant to me.  Since you have gone I felt an emptiness that feels like a deep cut that refuses to heal.  I will always be grateful for the support and love you gave me.  I hope that you know that you meant the world to me and my biggest regret is that we only got close in the last few years.  I am missing you and I know that you are watching over me because that’s just the kind of person you are ! 

January 14, 2023

Dear DiPaolo Family,
Please accept my condolences for the passing of your mother.  What an active and helpful life she led! She has earned her rest. Take care!
Linda Butz Brenckle

January 12, 2023

We are thinking of all of you at this difficult time. Your Mom led an amazing life. May she rest in the peace of the Lord.
Bruno & Sylvia

January 11, 2023

Denise,
Thinking of you in your time of sorrow. My prayers are with you and your family. Remember she will always be with you in your memories. Barbara Kauffman Michael

January 11, 2023

Dear Friends: Denise, Mike, Tony, Dino, Beth, and Frank,
My prayers and best wishes go out to all of you.  A great woman is now in Heaven.
Father Lavelle

January 11, 2023

Dear Beth and family
loosing a loved mom as you had is hard, as she gave you not only the life, but she learned you as well to live and care not only for youself and loved ones, but for the broader community. Dear Beth, we only know each other since a bit longer than a year, but I see these qualities from your mom alive in you.  I can only hope and pray that the beautiful moments you shared with her will help you the rest of your live to find strength when the pain in the hart of loosing her is strong.  Always remember that pain is only there because of the huge love received, something one can only be grateful for.  My deepest condolences.  Big hug  Sandra and family

January 10, 2023

To the entire family Dianne and I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Mothers are Special! They all go straight to Heaven!
Craig and Dianne Roda 

January 08, 2023

Deepest sympathies for your loss.  Saying prayers for comfort and peace as you remember and celebrate the life of such a giving person. Robert and Christina Johnston

January 08, 2023

My sincere condolences. Prayers and thoughts are with you. God Bless and keep the family during this time. 
Charmaine Williams

January 08, 2023

What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful woman. Jean touched my life in sobriety always giving support and love. She was so very special. Rest in peace sweet Jean.
Beth Manners

January 07, 2023

To the DiPalo Family,
We are sending thoughts & prayers to your Family, so sorry to hear about your
Mother passing away.  Sincerely, the Falcone Family!

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Lititz, PA 17543
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