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John C. “Alyx” Wages, 28

June 06, 2023

John C. “Alyx” Wages, 28, of Lititz, passed away on Tuesday, June 6, 2023. Born in New York City, Alyx was born to Tara S. (Sarwan) and Robert C. Wages.

Alyx graduated high school in Abu Dhabi, UAE, studied at Colorado State University in Ft. Collins, CO and was employed as forklift operator for DHL Supply Chain in Palmyra, PA. Alyx was active in serving the community, participating in Habitat for Humanity projects in Kenya and Romania, while in high school. Alyx was creative and enjoyed making unique jewelry and clothing. In their free time, Alyx also enjoyed playing video games. Alyx enjoyed traveling, having visited over 60 countries in his life. Some of Alyx’s favorite places included Seville, Spain, and Prague, Czech Republic. Alyx was also looking forward to visiting Japan in the future.

In addition to their parents, Alyx is survived by brothers: Thomas Wages of New Jersey and Jason Squillace of Texas; aunts: Savi, Indira, Nadira and Radhar Sarwan, as well as Dr. Orla Wages; uncles Peter Wages and Dr. David Wages; as well as cousins: Caroline, William, Fione, Justin and Kyle. Alyx was preceded in death by maternal grandfather Meewah Sarwan and paternal grandfather Dan Wages.

A Memorial Service will be held at 11AM on Saturday, July 29, 2023 at the Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home and Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543. Family and friends will be received from 10AM until the time of service.

Alyx was active in the LGBTQ Community. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in their memory may be made to the Water Street Mission, https://wsm.org/make-an-impact/donate/, 210 S Prince St, Lancaster, PA 17603 USA.

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July 28, 2023

My heart and soul break for you. I do not have the ability to comprehend your pain, and I dare say very few can. Please remember,Tara, the enormity of love that surrounds you. Ann Soudant xo

July 25, 2023

Dear Tara and Rob
My heart aches for you and your family. I am so very sorry and saddened to read about Alyx. May he rest in the Peace of our Higher Power. Love and prayers to you all…
Cindi Siddiqui

July 15, 2023

Dear Tara and Rob, we send our love and prayers to you and your family. God Bless you both during season of grief. Sherry and Jim LaSalle

July 15, 2023

Dear Tara, Rob and Thomas
im so sorry for your loss
having known you all 17 yrs ago I have grown fond of the family. Wish you strength to overcome the pain of the loss somehow if it’s even possible. Wish Alyx rest in peace and send the family my deepest condolences 
Erika

July 14, 2023

Dearest Tara and family, please accept my deepest condolence for your loss of Alyx. Please know that I carry you all in my heart. 
love Ruth

July 14, 2023

Sending love and prayers for peace and healing. So very sorry for your loss. Meg Macfarlane

July 05, 2023

Dear Tara and Rob:
It has been a long time, too long.  We wish you strength over the days ahead. May your memories of Alyx be a blessing. 
    Adrian and Dana

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Saturday, July 29, 2023
10:00 AM - 11:00 AM
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3110 Lititz Pike
Lititz, PA 17543
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