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Malinda J. Di Bella, 70

November 15, 2024

Malinda J. Di Bella, 70, of Strasburg, passed away at Providence Place in Lancaster on Friday, November 15, 2024. She was the loving wife of Dominick J. Di Bella for 50 years. Malinda and Dominick met in eleventh grade at Upper Darby High School, where they graduated in 1971.

Born in Danville, Montour County, PA, Malinda was the daughter of the late Frank Leonard Gregory and Jean (Smith) Gregory.

Malinda completed nursing school and worked as a registered nurse, first as an emergency room nurse and then as an operating room charge nurse, retiring in 2013. She was very dedicated to her job and patients and had a strong work ethic. In retirement, she volunteered with Hospice & Community Care.

Malinda attended High View Church of God with Dominick.

In addition to Dominick, Malinda’s family includes their daughters, Danielle A. Di Bella of Auckland, New Zealand, and Nicole E. Di Bella of Elkhart, IN. Also surviving are her brothers, Leonard Gregory, husband of Joanne of Glenside, PA, Steven Gregory, husband of Brenda of Tampa, FL, and Todd Gregory of Holyoke, MA, and Dominick’s brother, Gus Di Bella, husband of Laurie of Mexico, and his sister, Francis Moliterno of Arizona. She also loved our family pets Dorrie, Eloise, Iggy, Max, Julie, Sal and Trixie.

She supported her family in many unseen ways, from leading Girl Scouts to participating in the annual church pageant and school functions to supporting Dominick’s passion for service. Malinda was always there in the background, and we are forever grateful for this.

In her way, she had a deep connection to God and spirit, which came through during her many years as a nurse, teacher, mother, and wife of a U.S. Naval officer.

Her creativity was endless; earlier in her life, she enjoyed sewing Halloween costumes for the family and celebrating birthdays with decorations and flare; later, she generously knitted scarves for the Breast Cancer Society and other charities.

Both her parents and her brother, John Mitchell Gregory, preceded Malinda in death.

Malinda’s family will receive friends from 10 to 11 a.m. on Monday, December 2, 2024, at High View Church of God, 2470 Leaman Road, Ronks, PA 17572. The Rev. Mark J. Thiboldeaux, Sr. will officiate at the memorial service at 11 a.m.

Please omit flowers, and kindly consider a contribution in Malinda’s memory to Hospice & Community Care, P.O. Box 4215, Lancaster, PA 17604-4125.
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December 02, 2024

We are so sorry for your loss.  Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family
Adena Wiley

November 24, 2024

Dom and family- So sorry to read about your bleoved wife and mother. Our prayers go out to you at this time.
Bill Kloidt (Clippers)

November 21, 2024

Dom & Girls & Family, 
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathy in the passing of Melinda. The last time we saw her she had dinner at our house when you were stationed in Iraq. It seems like forever ago. It has been a long difficult road for all of you but most of all Melinda. We know she is in the loving arms of Jesus. We remember you both working diligently to always help others. Dom you and her have always had a heart for people and have touched the lives of many including us. We hope and pray God heals your family and gives you comfort at this most difficult time. Please know we are here for all of you. God Bless. Rest In Peace Melinda you will be missed by many.

November 19, 2024

Malinda volunteered in our Medical Records department a few years ago at Hospice and Community Care. She was a great worker and helped us a lot. Did whatever we asked of her. She was a joy to work with and will be sadly missed by many. The last time I saw her was at a banquet of the Red Rose Honor Guard. She looked so happy. My condolences to her family.

November 18, 2024

Dom, let God’s love and peace surround you at this time.  He alone is always with you and is there to help in the difficult times.  
 

November 18, 2024

Vickie and I will dearly miss Melinda,  as our time of friendship was a treasure to us both. We remember fondly the time we spent working together at The Christmas Pagent. 

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Monday, December 02, 2024
10:00 AM - 11:00 AM
High View Church of God
2470 Leaman Road
Ronks, PA 17572
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Ronks, PA 17572
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