Obituaries
Marilyn Hapke, 88
Marilyn K. Hapke, 88, of Millersville, passed away on Tuesday, February 28, 2023.
She was the wife of the late William R. Hapke, who passed away in 2004. Born in Orangeville, IL, she was the daughter of the late John P. and Beulah O. Whitehead Gnagey.
Marilyn had earned a dual BS in Education and Music and went on to an over 20-year career as an elementary school teacher and substitute. In her career, she taught in several local school districts in Lancaster County as well as the Lancaster IU-13.
She was a long-time active member of Grace United Methodist Church in Millersville.
Marilyn served as a Lioness with the Millersville Lions Club, was involved with the Keystone Pet Enhanced Therapy Services (KPETS) visiting local senior centers and retirement communities. She was very proud of her 40 years sobriety with AA and served as a counselor to others in their recoveries.
She is survived by her children: William R.B. married to Cecelia Hapke of Highville, and Paula married to Robert C. Flaig of Lancaster; her 4 grandchildren Rachel, Sarah, William, and Rhiannon, and her 6 great grandchildren Kamren, Westly, Layla, Mia, Reid, and Ryann.
Services will be private with interment in Jacksonville Memorial Lawn Cemetery in Jacksonville, IL. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a memorial contribution to KPETS, 1001 E. Oregon Rd., Lititz, PA 17543 or visit kpets.org
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March 10, 2023
When I read about Marilyn’s passing I was instantly flooded with many memories from years of being a neighbor. Like EVERY time I would see her she had a smile on her face. I recalled numerous comments about her family, particularly, Bill. I know she loved all of her family, but I know that Bill had a special place in her heart. Here are some of the comments made, probably, at John Herr’s, Wiley’s Pharmacy or just casually passing by my house. Always, making a very proud statement regarding her family: “Did you hear that (one of her family) had just been promoted….or did something spectacular. Finally, I recall her during a significant snow, prior to my heart issues, extending my snow blower to her property. When I was Mayor of Millersville Mayor, she wrote a letter-to-the-editor, writing some real nice things about me. Yes, even though we are no longer residents of Millersville, during these winter months I frequently have these snow events in my memory. She is now at rest, but Bill and other family members can feel assured of her love for each and every one of you.
Dick Moriarty
March 07, 2023
Marilyn was much loved at Millersville Community Church. She sent beautiful encouraging notes and cards to myself and my son. They made a great difference to us and to my son’s music ministry at church. She will be greatly missed and never forgotten at Millersville. She was a wonderful, warm-hearted, friendly person who was a pleasure to be around.
Charlee Megee
March 04, 2023
Oh Sweet lady, Marilyn. What a gift from God for us in the recovery community. I was happy to travel the road of happy destiny with you and hope to meet you again.Rest in peace my friend.
Judy Dennison
