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Pauline Ruth Shelly, 95

April 18, 2023

Pauline Ruth Shelly, 95, of Manheim, was taken into the arms of angels on April 18, 2023, at Pleasant View Communities. Born October 13, 1927, she was the daughter of the late Paul F. and Emma (nee Keener) Diehm. She began the role of quintessential wife and mother after meeting her husband, Ammon H. Shelly. They were married on April 13,1946 and shared 47 beautiful years of marriage and memories until his passing in 1994.

She and Ammon were former members of St. Paul’s Lutheran Church, where they raised their family and Pauline served as the church secretary. Later she became a member of the Lititz United Methodist Church where she served as a parish visitor.

Pauline served a pivotal role in creating the Northern Lancaster County Fire and Ambulance Alerting System, which later transitioned into the county 911 system.

Most importantly, Pauline had a deep love for her family. She treasured all opportunities to spend time with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. A self-proclaimed “beach bum” spending time at Ocean City, NJ, was something she appreciated with her family.

Her love will live on in her children, Nancy A., wife of Terry Williams of Harrisburg, and Gary Shelly, husband of Mary Ann of Lititz; grandchildren, Nicole Kesten (Scott), Joseph Shelly (Kelly Jo), Daniel Shelly (Erin), and Dr. Ryan Williams (Stephanie); great grandchildren, Alexander Shelly, Kate Shelly, Caris Shelly, Hannah Shelly, Luke Shelly, Owen Shelly, Jordan Shelly, Samantha Shelly, Eva Shelly, Joshua Kesten and Liza Williams; and brothers, Paul and Glen Diehm. She was preceded in passing by a granddaughter, Sara Shelly, and brother, Dale Diehm.

Interment will take place at 9 AM on Saturday, April 29, 2023, at the Penryn Cemetery, 1258 Newport Rd., Penryn, PA 17546. A funeral service honoring Pauline will take place following the interment at the Lititz Trinity Church, 44 E. Orange St. Lititz, PA 17543, beginning at 10:30 AM. The family will receive guests following the service. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Pauline’s name may be made to Ocean City Tabernacle, octabernacle.org or the Lititz Fire Company, lititzfire.org

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Condolences to the Family

May 04, 2023

We are so sorry to hear about your Mother’s passing. What a great lady!! We spent many wonderful times together in Ocean City on the beach! She got the ball rolling for us. Cherish all the memories, she loved her family so, so much. A sunset on earth is a sunrise in Heaven. 
Sandy and Harry Wertsch

April 28, 2023

On Behalf of the Lititz Fire Co No 1, I would like to express our sincere sympathy to the Pauline Shelly family. I personally remember Pauline from the early days of the Fire Co and Ambulance alert system in which she performed competently as the ” Zone 2 ” fire and ambulance dispatcher. May she rest in peace.
H Richard Neidermyer

April 27, 2023

Gary – we are thinking of you and your family with the loss of your Mother, Pauline Shelly. We shall think of her and your family whenever we look at the Market Street house painting. 
In Sympathy, Craig & Cindi Kimmel

April 25, 2023

Gary and Mary Ann…So sorry to hear of the passing of Gary’s mother.  I have many memories of her when we were both living on Cedar Street and after that when you moved to Market Street.  Please accept my sympathies and my prayers as you go through this time.  I wish I could be with you on Saturday but I am just finishing radiation treatment which will keep me away.  I will be thinking of you and praying for you on Saturday.  Blessings!
Jerry Reifsnyder

April 24, 2023

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of loss! With deepest sympathy, Paul and Tess Enck

April 23, 2023

Please accept my prayers and sympathy.  Your mother was a good friend and I have lots of great memories of being with your parents.
Ethel Nolt

April 23, 2023

My Pauline my next door Ocean City neighbor. Our visits were priceless and like family. We are so fortunate to have known this wonderful lady. We feel very close to her family and so appreciative to have them in our lives!  God bless my Pauline I will always miss you!
Mary Beth Owens

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Saturday, April 29, 2023
10:00 AM - 10:30 AM
Lititz Trinity Church
44 E. Orange St.
Lititz, PA 17543
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