Obituaries
Pedro I. “Peter” Melendez, Jr., 37
May 17, 2013
Pedro I. “Peter” Melendez, Jr., 37, of Lancaster went home to be among the angels on Friday, May 17, 2013. He died in the arms of his loving, devoted wife, and was surrounded by family at Hospice & Community Care, Mt Joy. He was the husband of Jennifer L. (Duncan) Melendez, they were blessed to have had 11 wonderful years together and would have celebrated their fifth wedding anniversary on October 18th. Peter was also the loving father of Anthony I. and Nuna Melendez.
He was born August 20, 1975 in Lancaster to Judith “Judy” Ortega and Pedro I. Melendez, Sr. both of Lancaster. Peter graduated from McCaskey High School in 1993 and went onto work at Dart Container in Leola for 15 years as a maintenance mechanic. Peter’s interests included watching Dallas Cowboys football, Formula One Racing, and soccer. His greatest joy in life was being a husband and a daddy to his miracle son Anthony, who gave him the strength and determination to fight a long courageous battle against stomach cancer.
Peter is also survived by his maternal grandmother, Grace Ortega, 3 sisters, Miriam, wife of Aaron Swinton, Letty, Dinah and a brother, Alpachite “Tito” Melendez along with a host of nieces, nephews, and Ortega and Duncan family members.
His final days were spent surrounded by family and friends of whom Peter had touched in some way throughout his short, yet very memorable life. We want to thank all those who have supported Peter and continue to support his family.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be at 11AM on Wednesday, May 22, 2013 at St. Joseph Catholic Church, 440 St. Joseph St, Lancaster, PA with Msgr. Thomas H. Smith as Celebrant. A viewing will be held at the church on Wednesday from 9-11AM. Interment in St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Melendez Family Fundraiser, c/o PO Box 1232, Lancaster PA 17608-1232. To send the family online condolences, please visit SnyderFuneralHome.com. Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory 717-560-5100
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Condolences to the Family
April 08, 2015
To All that been apart of Peter’s Life , I want to thank you everyone who supported his loved ones through it all!! Till this day it’s very hard to except he no longer with us in Flesh but I know he still remains in our hearts, memories & spiritually. God will see us through it all ! Judy Peter will never ever be forgotten, Miriam, Dinah Melendez my belove sisters , Tito Melendez My brother, till death do us apart Stay strong forever we be Our brother’s keeper & use all will be Mines
November 02, 2013
We had no idea that Peter had passed and extremely sorry for your loss. We know he underwent so many treatments of chemo therapy. Jen, my heart is right there with you and Anthony should be proud to have 2 of the most wonderful parents we have had a pleasure to meet.
Always,
Liz, Dave & Jaclyn Shapiro
Dear Melendez family , our thoughts and prayers are with all of you .
From Mr. and Mrs. Frank Cummins.
On behalf of the staff and board of directors of the Lancaster Community Safety Coalition, our deepest condolences go to the Melendez and Duncan families. May Pete rest in peace.
Im very sorry for your recent lost. We are with you through prayer. We have always loved yall for being such a great family. We love you and appreciate you for also being such great family with our mom Rosita.
Sincerely,
Danna,Brenda,Cindy (Rositas’s daughters).
To All My 2nd Family The Ortega’s: Becky: Stay strong and always know the "Green Street Girls" have you and your family in our prayers. Stay strong "Judy" he is now one of the angels looking over his family and at peace.
Love: Dawn, Denise, and Pokie
Hi aunt Jen,
It’s me Cole. I just want you to know how much I love uncle Peter, T, and you. I miss uncle Peter so much. I know uncle Peter will protect us and watch over us now that he is in heaven. And aunt Jen…don’t worry, uncle Peter told me to watch over T and you while we are on earth and that is what I will do. I also promised him I would try to be a really good boy.
I love you uncle Peter.
Love, Cole.
To the Melendez family know that there in my prayers and If you would need anything im here
Connie Fuentes (high school friend)
Judy, Miriam and The Ortega Family: My heart is breaking for you all. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless,
Kim Musser
Judy, Miriam and the Ortega Family, My heart is breaking for you all. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Kim Musser
Dear Judy and all of the Ortega and Melendez family. I was sad to learn of Peter’s passing at this stage in his life. I pray for him and the family: He is in your heart and never forgotten. remember all the good times you all had with him. Take care. Love all of you, always.
Angie
I knew peter he was family to the Paredes family. We knew each other since childhood. My prayers go out to his family. He will truly be missed R.I.P brother we will see each other again God bless.
Mr&Mrs Robert Paredes
107 Fischer Lane
Reading,PA 19601
Judy and Ortega family,
I am so sad for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Mayra Hernandez Overly
May our wonderful and sweet nephew Peter, "Rest in peace"!
Till we meet again!!
Love you Always, Godbless
Uncle Jim, Aunt Ellie & cousin Bubba
Pito although its been a few years since we talked I want you to know that I will miss you , I always thought you we’re my big brother and you still are I love you sincerely my prayers go out to your family, wife and kids,your mom Judy , sister Miriam I love you guys I will always hold a spot in my heart for you Pito, I love you Jose rosado
Dear Miriam, Judy and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Peter. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Chris Squeri
Dear Jennifer and your entire family., You are all in my thoughts and prayers that God will surround all of you with comfort, peace and strength during this time of grief. May God bless each of you. With my love, Barb Forry
Jennifer, I used to work with Pedro at Dart for 7 years. I’m so sorry to hear about your loss! You and your family are in my prayers. God bless you and little Anthony. Stay stong!Love to you and Pedro’s family.
Tina Davila
Jennifer, We can’t even pretend to know how you feel, but we can tell you that everything will be okay, you will be okay, time will heal all. As you comprehend this profound loss, let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens.
Luv, Celi, Ty & kids
Celi Ruiz
So sorry to hear Pedro lost his battle with cancer. I was his boss and good friend when he worked a Dart in the OPS Maintenance Dept. Pedro was a very well liked person and would do anything for you. I do know Pedro is without pain and will no longer suffer. Prayers to his wife and son that they with the help of family members will be strong.
Mark C. Overly
Jenn I am so sorry to hear about Peter!! You are in my thoughts and prayers!!!
John Moore
Miriam & Family,
So sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. Please know that you & your family are in our thoughts and prayers!!
Steve, Pam & Family
To Judy, Jennifer and the rest of the family,
Sorry for your lost of a great young man. We will miss you alot Pito. Pito you are in a better place and we will see you again.
Pito although its been a few years since we talked I want you to know that I will miss you , I always thought you we’re my big brother and you still are I love you sincerely my prayers go out to your family, wife and kids,your mom Judy , sister Miriam I love you guys I will always hold a spot in my heart for you Pito, I love you. Your GodSister, Carmen, and Your Godmother Margarita. I also want to add these two poems that comes to mind when I think of you. Title: Memories
I feel a warmth around me
like your presence is so near,
And I close my eyes to visualize
your face when you were here,
I endure the times we spent together
and they are locked inside my heart,
For as long as I have those memories
we will never be apart,
Even though we cannot speak no more
my voice is always there,
Because every night before I sleep
I have you in my prayer.
Title: Secret Of Happiness
when sadness fills your heart
when tears make you fall apart
when its gloomy all around
when you hear a silent killing sound
when love loses its meaning
when you always end up screaming
when hope is lost and faith is shattered
when you have lost every battle that mattered
that is gifted time in life
cause god is with you when you struggle and strife
don’t let it go for there’s much you may learn
cause happiness is gained only when you yearn
this dark night will soon end in day
we will laugh again and play
spring will come very soon
our fate will again shine like moon
hopes dashed to ground will again be honored and crowned
desire left alone will never be drowned
the dazzling light from above will fall on us
it will Begin the process of all sorrow minus and all joys plus
HE’LL COME WITH HIS RADHA AND HIS FLUTE
WILL SAY TO YOUR HOPE TO YOUR FAITH
A BIG BIG SALUTE
He’ll say life is waiting for you
angels and love is in your crew
NOW DON’T EVER SHED A SINGLE TEAR
CAUSE I’LL BE ALWAYS THERE
We Love You and Your Family By: Carmen Gonzalez and Margarita Hernandez
We are so sorry for your loss of a great young man. My husband and I were blessed to be able to work along side of Pedro for many years. God bless
Tonya & Lester Winebrenner
