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Ricky E. Ruhl, 65

August 13, 2024

At the age of 65, after a lifetime of perfectly timed quips, half-finished home projects, and never quite catching that elusive Bambi, Rick Ruhl has passed away. He no longer has to endure another one of Liverpool’s nail-biting games. A proud Marine Corps veteran, Rick lived life with the kind of dry wit that could silence a room or, more often, fill it with laughter. His passing marks the end of an era—one that was punctuated by his sharp humor, love for Liverpool FC, and dedication to faith, family, and friends.

Rick was once an avid hunter, spending many hours in the woods. Though he eventually traded his rifle for other pursuits, Bambi remains unscathed and is likely raising a glass in Rick’s honor somewhere deep in the forest. As a die-hard Liverpool FC fan, Rick knew the taste of victory, the bitterness of defeat, and the unique frustration of another season ending with “next year” optimism. His love for the Reds was only rivaled by his unwavering commitment to his faith, family, and his lifelong passion for the Los Angeles Rams. Rick’s allegiance to the Rams began in childhood, when he first laced up his cleats to play midget football for a team also called the Rams. From that early start, his love for the Rams endured through all the highs and lows of their seasons, and he remained a devoted fan throughout his life.

A devoted husband and father, Rick expertly managed the chaos of a household with his beloved wife and their two sons, teaching them the fine arts of sarcasm, wit, and how to laugh in the face of adversity. His faith guided him through life, and he’s likely found his reserved seat in heaven, with a front-row view of whatever match happens to be on that day.His dry sense of humor was legendary, capable of reducing a room to laughter with nothing more than a well-timed remark or a perfectly executed eye-roll. He may be gone from our sight, but we can be sure he’s found new ways to keep those around him entertained in heaven.

Rick is survived by his beloved wife of 42 years, Julie K., whom he married on August 1st, 1982. He also has two twin sons, Joshua (wife Amanda), and Jason, and has six adored grandchildren. His sons will carry on his legacy of poorly executed dad jokes and laughter. His legacy of laughter, love, and a bit of cheeky wit will continue through them.

Rick’s greatest joy was his family, especially being a fun-loving Pop-Pop to his six grandchildren: Asher, Madison, Daniel, Landon, Micah, and Hailey. Whether it was sharing a laugh, telling a story, or offering sage advice, he cherished every moment spent with them.

Rick had a knack for making connections wherever he went. It seemed no matter where he was, he always knew someone, and they always remembered him. When we were leaving the hospital after his passing, countless staff members came up to us, saying he was their favorite patient. One nurse shared, “When Rick was your patient, you knew you were going to have a good day.” His sense of humor never failed to brighten a room—one of his favorite jokes was responding to the question “How do you feel?” with “With my hands.”

A drop-by welcoming of the family and memorial service will be held at Charles Snyder Funeral Home& Crematory in Lititz, PA (3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543), on August 22nd from 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM. Friends and family are invited to come by, share a memory, offer their condolences, and spend a moment celebrating Rick’s life.In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to the Make-A-Wish Foundation, an organization close to Rick’s heart. He was heavily involved in the Brush Brigade in York County, PA, where he served as their unofficial official photographer, capturing the spirit of those who worked tirelessly to bring joy to children in need. As he always believed, making someone else’s wish come true is the best kind of victory.

Rest easy, Rick. You’ll never walk alone.

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August 19, 2024

So sad to hear of Rick’s passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with the family.  Rick is now in the mansion Jesus has prepared for him. 
Semper Fi Rick!
The Deist family

August 17, 2024

I meet Rick about 20 years ago. We worked together and would talk on a regular basis.  Everyday we would be on the phone even while we were delivered our orders.   As years went by we became close.  We would talk about our family and all the things we wanted to do to our homes.  Anything and everything .  He became like an older brother to me.   As time moved on he decided to move to a different job , but we would still talk on a daily basis.   We would make plans to go to breakfast every month.  It didn’t matter where we went , it was just to hang out and catch up on our lives and talk shop.  Rick was such a great person and treated me like family .  I will miss my friend very much.  RIP Rick   
   Julie , Josh , Jason and family ,  me and my family will always be here if you would need anything.  Please don’t hesitate to ask.   My god bless you all .        
Doug Miller

August 17, 2024

I want to thank Rick for being there for me, when I was going through some stuff. I knew him when I was a kid and lived in General Sutter Village. Thank you for being an encourager when I needed one. Thanks for the song you posted on FB when I needed it. You’re the best. I am going to miss you. I will be praying for the family. Jodie Golicher

August 17, 2024

Sometimes,  you are blessed to have special people in your life,  for me Rick was one of those people. Rick and I grew up a few houses away from each other when we were kids so we became friends by playing pickup football baseball and basketball games. I knew his brothers and sister and was always treated like family. Rick was a unique individual  to say the least, he always had me laughing even in the worst of times, all the while assuring me everything would work out fine. He was the guy you could count on in thick or thin.
I had the honor of being his best man when he married the love of his life Julie,  who oddly enough I went to kindergarten with.
As life went on we fell out of touch, but we’d see each other occasionally and it was like we just saw each other yesterday. I’m sure anyone who knew him would agree he had a way about him to make time spans vanish.
I will miss you my friend, more than I care to say. There was always a certain ” comfort” knowing you were only a phone call or message away.
Rest in peace, Rick, your battle is over and you have become whole again.  We will miss you, but you will always be carried in our hearts and memories. Thank you for everything. 
 
 
Craig Rearich

August 17, 2024

Sending our deepest condolences to Rick’s family. He was a fun loving man.Just from the little bit of time we knew Rick he brought many smiles to our faces. God bless you! Cindy McCarty

August 17, 2024

My Deepest Sympathy goes out to Julie, Josh, and Jason (and families).  Rick was one of a kind and even though he has moved on to a new Chapter in Life…his Cherished Memories will not be forgotten here by many.  May he be at Peace and each of his Family Members & Friends Heal in time.  Fly High Rick!
Tina Warner

August 17, 2024

So sorry for your loss, I only met him a few times . But Everytime he was always nice and always had a smile on his face. I know he was very proud of his boys and grandkids. God bless Julie and the family, may he rest in peace. 
Sharon McNece

August 17, 2024

I had the privilege of meeting Rick as the delivery driver for Lindenmeyr 25 years ago. He was a beam of sunshine with a contagious smile and laugh.
He was a fantastic genuine person and glad our paths crossed.
Hold onto all of your memories keeping them close to your heart.  I know he will continue to watch over his family until you meet again. 
Sandy Flory

August 17, 2024

 I didn’t know Rick real well, his brother Larry was in my class at school. We became friends a little further down the road of life, here on this Facebook site, and I’m glad we did. We shared a lot of the same beliefs and points of view on things. But here’s what makes me call Rick my friend and a really great person. A few years back when my sister passed through we had a funeral and a small get together at a park near her house, in Mount Joy. Rick had reached out when my sister passed through, about six months earlier and sent some wonderful condolences to me via private messenger.But the kicker was this. He showed up at our get together after the funeral. He apologized for not making it to the funeral, he was working that day, but found time aftera long work day to stop and say hello. I hardly knew Rick, but that gesture confirmed everything I already thought about him! We’re all busy, we all have places to be and things to do. But he was kind and thoughtful enough to take some precious time, to ease my pain, you can not put a price on that! We will see each other again Rick, and when we do, it won’t be at a funeral wake, it won’t be for a few years in high-school, it will be for eternity! My prayers are out to your family and friends! We spent so little time together, but I miss you already! 
Tony Doyle

August 17, 2024

My heart goes out to Julie and the family. Rick was a very caring and loving person. I’m so honored to have met him. May he Rest in Peace.
Linda Rogers

August 16, 2024

I meet Rick all but 20 years ago on the job.  We butted heads almost on a daily basis early on in our relationship.  Respect for one another’s work ethic and joy in challenging each another quickly turned our path into appreciation for one another.  I’d call Rick while he was out on his route for a quick question only to end up with an hour conversation.  So many times I’d forget why I called him but was so please I called.
Julie and family I know you’ll be blessed each and everyday with a lifetime of memories to carry and reflect on.  Feeling a little down in the years to come.  Rick created a memory to put the smile back on your faces.  
God bless!
LM – Mike D.

August 16, 2024

Could not have described Rick any better than above. I have the pleasure of knowing Rick & Julie, through their wonderful sons. Joe my oldest went all through school with them. And it is like having two more sons. Rick and I were volleyball parents and I think we were the loudest fan club! He also coached Joe in soccer! Always treated my sons like his own and Kim and I are grateful for that. He is forever in our hearts and I am grateful he was a dear friend in our lives. 
Joseph G. Kane III

August 16, 2024

So sad to hear of Rick’s passing and would like to extend my sincerest condolences to the family. I knew Rick through work as he delivered paper to various places I worked. He was one of the nicest guys you’ll ever meet and I’m so glad I had the opportunity to get to know him. He would always greet you with a smile and a firm handshake. We would talk NFL and high school wrestling and he was passionate about both. I will truly miss him. Rest easy my friend!
Mark Yoder

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Thursday, August 22, 2024
5:00 PM - 7:00 PM
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Lititz, PA 17543
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