Obituaries
Ryan C. Brubaker, 21
Ryan C. Brubaker, 21, of Lititz, was called to be with Christ the Lord, on Tuesday, September 11, 2012.
Born in Lancaster, he was the son of Michael W. and Cindy J. (Aspril) Brubaker.
Ryan was a 2009 graduate of Warwick High School where he participated as a member of the Cross Country Team both junior and senior years. He graduated from Thaddeus Stevens School of Technology in 2012, where he studied computer aided drafting. Ryan participated in the People to People Student Ambassador Program, where he traveled to 7 countries. He played Little League baseball, soccer and enjoyed hunting, fishing, camping, and the outdoors. He also loved music and playing guitar. He enjoyed traveling with family and had fond memories of his trip to Iraq and Austria with his father.
Ryan was employed by Clair Global during his college years and after graduation.
He had been a member of Lancaster Evangelical Free Church and was attending LCBC.
In addition to his parents, Ryan is survived by his sister, Alyson Marie, wife of Todd A. Devenburgh of Manheim Twp., his brother Christopher Michael Brubaker of Rochester, NY; his maternal grandparents Jean and Curt Aspril of Mountville, his paternal grandmother, Mary Alice Brubaker of Lancaster, his paternal grandfather, William L. Brubaker of Willow Valley, as well as many loved aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Ryan was dearly loved by his entire family. They would like him to be remembered for his warm smile, gentle spirit, and his deep compassion for others.
Ryan’s Celebration of Life Service will be held on Saturday, September 15, 2012 at 2PM from Calvary Church, 1051 Landis Valley Rd., Lancaster, PA with The Rev. Doug Winne officiating. Friends will be received on Friday, September 14, 2012 from 6-9PM at the Charles F. Snyder Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA. There will be no viewing Saturday. Interment will be private in Witness Park Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please make contributions to the Ryan C. Brubaker Memorial Fund in care of PNC Bank, 1 Trolley Run Road Lititz, PA 17543 exclusively used to benefit local young people in need. To send the family online condolences, please visit SnyderFuneralHome.com Charles F. Snyder Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory 717-560-5100
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Condolences to the Family
March 03, 2020
Mike & Cindy and family, I am so sorry about your son’s death this is Joseph felice from Denver pennsylvaina. Use to work at Ears now I’m retired
Joseph Felice
Senator Brubaker and family,
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your son. We understand your pain, we, too lost a daughter 21 years ago and she left behind 2 boys. Who now are 26 & 24. Both boys, she can be proud. May the God of peace give you peace and comfort at this time.
Harrison & Barbara Brown
I only know you from passing you in the hall at ECH but I was devastated to hear of your loss. Please know you and your family are in my prayers. KK
Dear Sen. and Mrs. Brubaker and family:
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy, and pray for you all to have strength and find peace.
Bevin Buchheister,
Chesapeake Bay Commission, MD
Wordlessly heartsick for your loss,
jd
Mike and Cindy I cannot imagine going through the pain that you are enduring of losing a child. I thought a lot about you and Cindy this week. Please accept my sincere sympathies.
Dave and Sharon Kline
Dear Brubaker Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathies at the loss of you son Ryan. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. May your family be comforted by your faith in the Lord.
Charlie & Cindy Groff
and The Highlands of Donegal Staff
BRUBAKER FAMILY–
No one can fathom your loss, but know that your friends care and extend our love and condolences to you.
"Be not dismayed whate’er betide,
God will take care of you;
beneath his wings of love abide,
God will take care of you."
With Deepest Sympathy,
Paul Swartz
Dear Mike, Cindy, Christopher, Alyson and Todd,
Our heartfelt and deepest sympathy are with you all. May you treasure the wonderful memories you have of Ryan and may God give you all the strength to carry on.
R-Remembering his warm smile, gentle spirit and his deep compassion for others.
Y-Your deep and abiding LOVE you all had for him.
A-Always in your hearts.
N-Never to be forgotten.
With Our Love,
Howie, Bonnie and Kate Eckhart
Dear Mike and Cindy: We are very sorry for your loss. We cannot imagine how hard it is to lose a child, someone you love deeply. You are in our prayers during this time of tremendous grief.
Shalom,
Temmy and Gary Lord
Dear Mr.& Mrs. Michael Brubaker & Family:
Our Deepest Sympathy to you and your family for your loss of Ryan. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you all at this very difficult time. Through Faith and Love that surround your family at this time, may you find comfort ahead.
Sincerely,
Deborah & Kenneth Minnerly (of Manheim)
We met with Mike shortly after the loss of our son Connor. No words can describe the loss of a son and I WANT to tell you 3 years later that the pain gets better. It does not! The only hope and peace you will find is in your faith in which has sustained us. Please know that there is a mother and father out there that feels the pain of a lost son. Please contact us day or night as we love you and feel your pain. We want to ease your pain any way that we can. We haven’t stop thinking about you since we read the news. The media can be cruel. With much love and sympathy!
Barbara and Dr. Bill Carter
Dear Senator & Mrs. Brubaker & family,
May the gentle love and compassion of Jesus be with you at this time. My youngest daughter graduated from WHS with Ryan, and has many fond memories of their time together. Please know our prayers are with you, and may peace and Blessings be with you all.
Mike Adams, FD
Lititz, PA
Mike, Cindy, and family,
Louise and I were deeply saddened to receive news of Ryan’s passing. We cannot imagine a deeper grief than the loss of one’s child. We pray that the pain of loss is touched by God, whose child you were privileged to care for during a short season of life.
We extend our love and sympathy,
Howard Yoder for the Yoder family
Dear Mike and Cindy and family,
We hold you all close to our prayers and our hearts.
You have always making giving your own generous way of life.
You and Ryan will continue to be inspirations for us at Cafe Chocolate.
With deepest respect from Selina Man and Team Cafe Chocolate
Please accept our sincere condolences on your tragic loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Maxine Harrison (P.P.F.F.) Board member
and the families of our Friends groups associated with the following State Parks,
Cherry Springs, Lyman Run, Hills Creek, Leonard Harrison, Colton Point, Patterson, Prouty Place and Denton Hill.
To Mike, Cindy, and the rest of our family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy with the loss of Ryan. You are in our prayers and very much in our thoughts!
Love,
Brad, Marie, Kevin, Corey, and Cody Aspril
Mike, Cindy and Family,
Sorry to hear the loss of your son. I will keep him in my prayers.
Jack Assetto
Sympathy & kindest regards to the Brubaker family & friends wherever they may be. God bless 1 & all. Take care.
Ray Allen
320 South Fairview Street
Lock Haven, PA 17745
On behalf of the Mu Mu Chapter of the Sigma Chi Fraternity and the Charleston WV Alumni of Sigma Chi, please accept our heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your beloved son, Ryan. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Brubaker family at this difficult time.
Marc D. Golden ’76
Charleston, WV Alumni Secretary
Mr. and Mrs. Brubaker,
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Rocco Steco III
Dear Brubaker Family,
With a heavy heart we are extremely saddened by the news of your child’s passing, our daughter Christina knew your son, and she is deeply saddened to hear of his passing. We can not begin to express our heart felt sympathies to you and your wife for what you are going through right now. Please know that we are praying for him, that the good Lord may have mercy on his soul.
Deep regards,
Spiros,Zelka,Christina and Sophia Birbas
Mike, Cindy and family – The Rakos family thanks you for including Tim in Ryan’s life especially their little farm. No words can be found other than to say believe in God’s plan for each of his children. We are sure he was waiting for Ryan with open arms, a hug and handed him a guitar.
Kirk and Kathy
Cindy, Senator Brubaker and Family,
Please accept our deepest condolences, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. My Daughter Julia graduated High School with Ryan and was very saddened by the news.
The Pontius Family- Patrice, Julia and Thomas
On behalf of the Mu Mu Chapter of the Sigma Chi Fraternity and the Charleston WV Alumni of Sigma Chi, please accept our heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your beloved son, Ryan. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Brubaker family at this difficult time.
Dear Mike and Cindy,
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Ryan. Please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Robb and Carla Aspril and sons
Dear Mike, Cindy, Alyson and Christopher,
It was with great, great sadness that we received the news of your beloved Ryan’s death. Our hearts are heavy as we recognize what a horrific blow this is to your parent and sibling hearts. Know that our prayers are with you and for you as you navigate these unchartered waters of grief and mourning.
My prayer for you:
Oh Merciful, Sovereign God, hear our prayers on behalf of this grieving family.
May they lean hard on You and put their trust in You when nothing about this situation makes any sense.
When they pour out their hearts to You, may they discover that You are their Refuge, their Comfort and their Strength.
In the midst of deep sorrow may they sense the warmth of your Presence, that they may experience and embrace the peace and hope you have for them.
Lift them up and cause them to stand tall, for You, Lord, are the lifter of our faces. Bless them, keep them, bind them together. Be so real to them, and bring them the assurance of their loved one’s well-being. We love you and trust you Lord. We know this will not be wasted.
Amen.
Cheryl Frey
Dear Brubaker family:
Please accept our deepest condolences. We be praying for Ryan and your family, feel re-assured he is in God’s hands now.
Warmest Regards,
Mark & Mary Vergenes & Family
Mr. and Mrs. Brubaker,
I offer my sincerest sympathy on the loss of your beloved son Ryan . He was on the brink of starting his mature life, now he will live his spiritual life with God. He knows what is in our hearts and has taken Ryan to be with Him. One day you will join Ryan. He will be waiting on the other side. Please know that I am with you in my heart and in my prayers. I pray for peace for you, Ryan’s family in the knowledge that Ryan is still with you..
God be with you
Janet Fisher
Mike and Cindy,
Words fail us at this time; please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Todd and Marian Lehman
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Sally Kohr
Mike and Cindy-
We were saddened to hear of Ryan’s passing but glad that he knew the Lord. Mike, I don’t know if you remember visiting our son Ryan who has autism and cerebral palsy. We were impressed with your willingness to take time out of your busy schedule to step inside our Ryan’s world. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
To the Brubaker Family
Sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Laurie Steffy
Please accept our deepest sympathies with the loss of your son Ryan. We were victims of Wesley Snyder’s ponzi scheme. We attended every meeting that was held when the story was in the news almost every day. One meeting that stood out for us was when you Mr. Brubaker spoke. Your compassion to us the victims was very evident as you spoke on our behalf and we so appreciated that.
We feel compassion for your family during this time and will be praying for supernatural strength for today and for the coming days ahead. May the Lord surround you and your precious family.
Betsy Benner
Mike, Cindy & Family, you are in our prayers at this most difficult time.
Andy & Pam Fox
Cindy and Mike, Aly and Chris,
We can’t begin to feel your pain. May your faith, friends and family be there for you in the times ahead.
Joe and Joann Emanuele
Dear Mike and Cindy,
Our hearts are breaking for you and your family at this devastating loss. We entrust your precious son to the Lord Jesus Christ, and will continue to pray for much grace and consolation as you walk this difficult path of grief. Know that our thoughts and prayers will be ongoing.
Terry and Carolyn Spicknell
i am so sorry for your loss…our family lost a son also and its the toughest things to go through..please know your family is in my thoughts and prayers
Karen Goodman-Sharpe
To the Brubaker family,
My sincerest condolences on the loss of Ryan. May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Dr. Charles Yeager
Lanc. Co Podiatry
Dear Cindy,Mike and family;
Words cannot express the sadness in our hearts over your unexpected loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family in your time of sorrow. May you have the strength to trust God’s love in the days and months ahead.
Always here for you!
Terry,Sue and Steve Shamberger
Cindy and Mike,
We are thinking of you and your family during this very difficult time. Our hearts go out to you.
Doug,Kathi,Zac and Kelsey Rothfus
Mike, Cindy, Alyson, and Chris,
We hope our expressions of sympathy will help ease the pain in some small way. We hold your family in our hearts and prayers and think of you often. God’s peace be with you.
Don, Gwen, and Braden Story
Please accept our deepest condolences and know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers
Joe and Gina McDonough
Words can not even begin to express what you must be feeling, but know you have many people praying and thinking about you. May you find peace in wonderful memories of your boy.
Sincerely,
Lisa and David Priester
I knew Ryan when I was working at Warwick High School, and he came in as a freshman. Ryan was so nice to his classmates, and put so much effort in all he did. He was such a sweet young man; I enjoyed getting to know him during his time with me. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
~ Lisa Hall
Dear Mike and Cindy-
You are in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. May God keep you and give you strength.
The Brosnan’s ~~ Ed, Lyn & Howie
Ali & Family Our prayers are being sent your way while you go through this difficult time. Ali I know it will be rough with out your brother, but it is in God’s hands now, just trust in God and he will help you all though this. May God be with you all
God Bless
Love Tim & Tammy Slocum
Dear Mike and Cindy,
My heart goes out to you during this very hard time. May God’s peace rest upon you.
Love
Jim Charles