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Thomas Austin Hartenstine, 22

June 04, 2023

Thomas Austin Hartenstine, 22, of Lancaster, PA, passed away on June 4, 2023 from injuries sustained in a motor vehicle crash. Tom graduated from Penn Manor High School in 2018 and attended classes at Millersville University and Harrisburg Area Community College.

Remembered for his cheerful disposition, kindness and infectious smile, Tom loved animals and traveling, and in earlier years swam competitively. He played french horn while at Penn Manor and was very involved in Boy Scouts. Tom loved gaming on his computer and spent lots of quality time online with his friends. He enjoyed building computers, tinkering with automobiles, riding his motorcycle, and had a keen interest and skill in target shooting. His strong passion for cooking included blending the best fruit smoothies. Tom was known for his dry, witty sense of humor, delivering zingers with a wicked grin.

He is survived by his parents, Linda M. (DeChristopher) Hartenstine and Grant Richard Hartenstine III, and his older brother Grant Richard Hartenstine IV, all of Lancaster, PA, his grandparents, Joyce E. (Eckman) Hartenstine of Marticville, PA, and Barbara and Thomas DeChristopher of York, PA, and girlfriend Hayden Moyer as well as numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.

A memorial service will be held at Safe Harbor United Methodist Church, 3687 River Rd., Conestoga, PA 17516 on Saturday July 1 at 11:00 am. The service will be followed by a reception. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you make a donation to Pet Pantry of Lancaster, 26 Millersville Road Lancaster, PA 17603.

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July 02, 2023

Praying for you all. Thinking of you all and deepest sympathies with the loss of Tom. Praying God’s loving arms and strength are with you and you are surrounded by the love of your family and friends. We mourn but not like those who are unbelievers and that you are comforted by the blessed assurance of eternal life. 
Jenn Barley

June 30, 2023

Grant, Linda and Grant….No words can convey our heartache for your loss.  We are sending much love and light your way and hope you can feel our hugs from afar.
With sincere sympathy,
The Cook Family

June 29, 2023

We are so saddened to learn of the loss of Thomas. We know that he was a beloved son to both of you,  and his brother.  We hope that the many happy memories you have will carry you through this very hard time. He will be always in your heart. Aunt Anne, Uncle Jim

June 29, 2023

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Hartenstine family. With deepest sympathy,  your PA Jeeps Family 

June 26, 2023

So sorry to have seen this Grant. May you find comfort in the joy he brought to all. Yes, you will miss him and when it is children at such a young age it can be tough. Your friends will hold you at this time. Our thought are with you and Linda.  Roy Peters

June 26, 2023

I am so, so saddend to hear about Thomas. He was an outstanding young man with outstanding parents.  Grant, I feel so much sorrow for you too. I thought so much of him and your family and my heart goes out to all of you at this devastating time. Please know you all have been in my prayers and thoughts.  God Bless you all.
Wendy Blake

June 18, 2023

My most sincere & deepest condolences for your families sudden loss of such an amazing young man. Nathan enjoyed Tom’s friendship & scouting adventures they experienced together. Our hearts are broken for your loss & Nathan is thankful for the time spent with Tom. You all will be in ourcontinued thoughts & prayers.
Pam Adams

June 14, 2023

Grant, Linda, and little Grant…
So sorry to hear of the loss of Thomas, your family and friends are in our thoughts and prayers. Larry Wilson

June 13, 2023

Linda, Grant, and Grant,
We are so very saddened to hear of the sudden loss of your beloved Tom. We are praying for your strength at this time, that God is lifting you all up and holding you close. Sending you all lots of love and hugs.  Leighann, Mike, Dominic, Liam and Arden Cirillo

June 12, 2023

So sorry for your loss. No words can describe the sympathy I feel for you all. 
Joann Wakefield

June 12, 2023

Grant and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers through this very difficult time.
Keith Reed

June 12, 2023

Linda, Grant and Grant and Family
My Heart breaks for you.
I am so deeply Sorry for your Sudden and Tragic Loss.
Please accept my deepest Sympathies.
My Thoughts and Prayers will be with you.
Anne Campion.

June 11, 2023

Mr. And Mrs Hartenstein
We had only met Tom one time when he joined us for dinner with Hayden. He was a very respectable and pleasant young man and very enjoyable to talk to. We were so happy Hayden had met such a nice guy and that they seemed extremely happy together. We can’t imagine the heart ache you are all going thru at this sad time. Please know your family is in our thoughts and prayers . With sympathy Hayden’s aunt. And uncle Donna and Earl Huyett

June 10, 2023

Please accept our deepest sympathies at this very difficult time.  Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Linda Hartenstine Gould and Family
 

June 10, 2023

Grant and Linda, Our sympathy goes out to you and your family. Tom was an exceptional young man, always smiling, polite, and respectful. He liked sleeping late,eating M and M ‘s and working on cars. He will surely be missed in our holiday get togathers. Peggy & Warren Hayes

June 09, 2023

Grant, Linda and Grant,
There are no words I can say to describe how sorry I am for your loss! I am praying for your family in this tragic time!
Tracy Musser

June 09, 2023

I remember Thomas at 2 years of age being placed within his car seat in the back of the Jeep Willies with many of us as we venture out on the trails. The trails would most times rock him asleep as Mom in the passenger seat was reading a book, as Dad ventured his way forward. As we finished the day we made our way back to camp to call it a day. We looked over the vehicles to asses any problems for the nest day as the Mom’s would gather up the children and begin preparring dinner. Once the vehocles were assed the men came in to provide any help needed once the camp fire was started. Well, the aromas from serveral campfires was in the air as everyone was enjoying and sharing their bounty with others before gathering for the eveing around the campfire. This was the time that Thomas would seem to come to life (from 2 yrs. of age until 12 yrs. of age) as he was the most respectful young boy addressing everyone within the camp as Mister of Misses and he remembered names really well. Then his smile would just brighten your day when he and his brother got their fishing rods to check out the pond at the Red Ridge Campground. Then after that they would return to enjoy the campfire “moon-pies” that Mom & Dad would allow them to make with proper supervision. After some years I lost touch with the family but I always new Thomas was raised with good parenting and would succeed at anything he chose to do in his future. It’s a tragic loss for the family and my heart felt condolences goes out to each and every one of them during this troubling time.  Rick A Bear

June 09, 2023

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We are sending prayers to all of you. 
Dennis & Karen Haines

June 09, 2023

Grant and Linda ,
No words can ease the pain for such a loss. Just know Dave and I have you in our thoughts and prayers. All those trips we enjoyed 4wheeling will always be remembered.  
Jenn Watson

June 09, 2023

Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Hartenstine family. 
Thoughts and prayers from your PA Jeeps family 

June 09, 2023

Grant, Linda and Grant – please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Billie Jeanne and Carson Fish

June 09, 2023

Grant, I’m so sorry for your tragic loss.  I know there are no words to help comfort or ease the pain.  I just wanted to let you know you’re in my thoughts and prayers. 

Services
Saturday, July 01, 2023
11:00 AM - 12:00 PM
Safe Harbor United Methodist Church
3687 River Rd.
Conestgoa, PA 17516
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