Obituaries
Thomas J. Prokop, 61
May 07, 2023
Thomas J. Prokop, 61, of Lancaster, PA passed away on Sunday, May 7, 2023 surrounded by his loving family. Born in Bayonne, NJ, he was the son of the late Janet (Stack) and Thomas J. Prokop. He was the beloved husband to Randy Rudy, with whom he shared over 9 years of marriage.
Thomas worked at McKesson in Medical Billing. He previously worked at Service Merchandise in Management. Thomas and Randy loved to travel. They especially enjoyed visiting London attending plays at the theatre and seeing shows in Vegas. Tom enjoyed watching Murder Mysteries and game shows on the British Channel. Tom and Randy previously enjoyed bowling with their best friend, Mary. Most of all Tom cherished spending time with Randy, family and close friends. His sense of humor will be missed by all who knew and loved him.
Tom is survived by his husband, Randy and his best friend Mary Miller.
In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to Amedisys Hospice Care, 1401 Oregon Pike, Lancaster, PA 17601. Services will be private at the convenience of the family.
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November 05, 2024
Randy, I am so sorry I only recently heard if TJ’s passing. You both were highly respected by me and I viewed you both with excitement at the potential friendship we could forge despite being part of the Prokop clan to which I am grateful I am no longer part of being the EX of Eric. You both were treated so poorly and unustifiably so by JT’s part of the family, but not by me. I couldn’t let this go unrecognized as not even a single Prokop offered condolences to a member of their family who I know is amazing. And you as well. For our brief encounters I was mesmerized by your knowledge of owning a historical home and knowing how to decorate it. So smart and so sweet the both of you were/are. I’m sorry so many years have passed and we never got to expand upon our friendship but I thought of you both often and from what I gather you both shared an amazing life together. I hope for you that you are able to keep all the amazing memories with you yet still move on. TJ was lucky to have you and vice versa. If you ever want to catch up, 845-545-5512 – Lisa.
May 14, 2023
It was an honor to meet Tom and Randy. The stories you told me warmed my heart. I wish I could have heard more of them. May you rest in peace Tom.
Sabrina Patterson
May 14, 2023
I only had the opportunity to meet Tom in his final days as his hopsice nurse. Randy did an amazing job caring for him until the end. His love and devotion was unmeasurable. I enjoyed hearing their love story! RIP Tom!
Nadine
May 11, 2023
Tom’s humor was beyond dry and I always appreciated that, he was funny as all get out! He loved his husband Randy dearly and I will miss him.
Cindy Fry
May 09, 2023
I worked with Tom at McKesson
He was so lighthearted and funny. He will be missed. My condolences to his husband, family and friends.
Jennifer Keller
